Thankfully, kids seldom think or worry about how much money their family has—that’s their parents’ job. Many families do a great job of keeping money anxieties away from their kids despite the hardships they may face.
Children delight in simple joys, needing little to experience contentment. Even children who grew up quite poor are often oblivious because their parents helped them focus on what they did have (and they didn’t know any other way).
However, as our perspectives broaden and we meet more people from various backgrounds, we become aware of the privileges and luxuries we might have overlooked during childhood. At some point, you may have finally realized that your life looks quite different from those who have more money than you.
Thankfully, growing up “poor” doesn’t necessarily mean you had a bad childhood. It simply means you experienced the world differently. Someone asked online, “What’s something a poor kid would understand but would utterly confuse a rich kid?” Here are a few answers.
1. The Real Meaning Of New
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Individuals who didn’t have much during their upbringing often received many “new” clothes and toys, even though they were handed down or from the local thrift shop. It wasn’t until many of them reached adulthood that they realized “new” meant unused, not just something they hadn’t possessed before, but rather something that someone else hadn’t used either.
2. Checking Prices Isn’t “Normal”
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Some people are never bothered by the price tags; they just pick and drop things into the cart. That’s one way to know if you’re rich or not. (Although it’s always good to be aware of our spending habits, no matter how much or little we make.)
A user says, “My cousins are upper middle class, and I went shopping with them during one of the only times I spent the night at their house. Not only were these 12-year-old girls astounded that my mom only gave me $10 to spend while there, but they couldn’t at all understand why I was checking the prices on everything we saw. Their parents just bought them whatever they wanted most of the time.”
3. Food is Your Love Language
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You haven’t known real poverty until eating when hungry isn’t an option. Many adults who grew up struggling to get food (or at least the food they craved) are now very wary of hunger and will do anything to make sure other people don’t experience it.
A user states, “My entire identity revolves around food. I use my spare “fun” money on food now. I give gifts of food, I take friends out to eat; I give people their [favorite] snacks and candy bars as little surprises. We never had enough as kids, we went hungry every da*n day. And now, I express myself through food.”
4. Helping Paying Bills
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The concept of bills typically doesn’t enter most kids’ lives until well into adulthood, but some begin learning about bill payments before turning 18.
One user commented, “‘Getting a job before the age of 18 to help pay the rent’ was a clear sign that they weren’t from an affluent background.”
5. Caring About The Height Of Your Gas Tank Line
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Some people have never had their car filled to a full tank or above the half-tank line. For the most part, the car would be sustained by prayers in the race to the fueling station from when the fuel light comes on.
A full gas tank was too expensive to cover regularly, so getting by on a few dollars of gas and fumes had to be sufficient until the next payday (the parents or teens).
6. Parents Helping With Bills After 18
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For some people in the US, 18 is the age at which parents stop sorting out their bills for them. Some are even required to move out and be independent. Imagine growing up and discovering that some people still get their bills paid by their parents, sometimes for as long as they want.
7. What Informs Your Choice Of Food
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You buy food today because you love it (and need to eat), but for some people, food choice is based entirely on the price and its ability to fill your tummy.
One user says his poverty measure was “Buying food, not for taste or preference, but for the price point and how filling it is.”
8. Getting Clothes A Size Bigger
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Poor families always got clothes they could grow into, not particularly fitting ones.
An online contributor says, “I remember when we would go shopping for school clothes, it was at Walmart or Kmart, and it was always the sale items and 1 size up so we could grow into it.”
9. Laundromat Boredom
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Spending hours at the laundromat on the occasional weekend when everyone’s clothes were ripe and ready for a good rinse is something rich kids will never understand.
Finding something to do at a laundromat before phones and the internet was quite the task, too. A deck of cards or a large dose of imagination was necessary to pass the time.
10. Constant Money Anxiety
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Always being one step away from financial ruin is a feeling many families deal with on the regular, barely making it from paycheck to paycheck.
One user shares, “Every time you get a little bit ahead, an extra 100 dollars or so, and being able to relax and breathe a bit. The next day something goes catastrophically wrong with the car, or an appliance, or an unexpected late charge on something you forgot about. It never ends. One step forward, two steps back.”
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11. Candle Nights
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Not being able to pay the bills and getting utilities cut is a surefire sign of money struggles that kids may not realize until they’re older.
A user writes, “Being really young and getting excited about the “power cut”, lighting candles etc. when really it was because we couldn’t afford electricity.”
12. Watered Down Shampoo
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Need toiletries to last longer? Try watering them down like some families did to stretch their dollars. The same goes for other household items like fruit juice (if there’s any in the house).
This simple tactic was normal in any household trying to make every penny stretch.
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